Blogging has been very good to me over the last twelve and a half years, but it’s come at a personal cost that I’m sure many can relate to.
Gradually over that time I’ve allowed myself to become more and more inactive. Gradually over time I became less and less fit and gained more and more weight.
Along with the weight gain and loss of fitness came a loss of energy and mental alertness. If I’m honest it also began to impact my mental health which in turn impacted numerous other areas of my life from relationships to my personal confidence and even through into my blogging.
Four months ago I had a bit of a wake up call after my annual doctors checkup, when I was presented with a list of areas I needed to do some work on. None of the things on the list were super-urgent or life-threatening but the fact that it was a list was enough to grab my attention and sparked a few changes in my life.
I recently wrote about my ‘slow decline’ and the changes I made in a post over on LinkedIn titled My New Project: Project Me.
In short I began to walk each day and made some significant changes to my diet (you can read the specifics in the post). The impact was pretty immediate.
- Most importantly I’m feeling so much better within myself.
- I have more energy than I remember having for a decade.
- I’m thinking clearer and have more mental alertness and stamina.
- My confidence has improved so much!
- I’ve lost 13 kilograms (almost 29 pounds) and am in desperate need to go shopping to buy some smaller clothes!
- My blood pressure is down!
- I’m no longer out of breath when I play with my kids.
- I’m getting more productive and the quality of my work is improving.
- My mood and outlook has improved and I’m finding myself smiling a whole heap more
One of the other impacts that I had not expected of this journey is that as I’ve shared my story (with the above post) and in conversation I’ve noticed that it’s sparked others around me to make changes.
I was at a conference last week when three people told me that they’d started their own ‘Project Me’ campaigns. Each was doing it their own way and focusing upon a different areas of their life but each was sick of the ‘gradual slides’ that had happened in their lives and was doing something about it.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this over the last few weeks and have been wondering if there’s some way we could support each other more as a community in this area.
I’ll declare up front that I’m no expert in any of this. I’m four months into this journey and have been learning a lot but still have a long way to go. But I do know that I’m much more likely to have success if I’m doing this in community and have a little accountability from those around me.
As a result yesterday on the spur of the moment and without any planning or forethought, I decided to start a little group on Facebook for those who want to work on improving their health.
I’ve set the group up under the name of Feelgooder (the name of an old blog I used to have that I’ve never done much with) with the goal of it being alive for three months. On 19 August we’ll reassess whether the group is being of use to people and I’ll decide if we continue it or not.
The group is a closed group but you’re very very welcome to join it.
The objective is not to prescribe, teach or share any one way to get healthy. Rather it’s a place for support, share, be vulnerable and have a little accountability.
So far we’ve got 230+ people who’ve joined. People seem to be at all stages of the journey with their fitness, diet and other areas of well being. There’s also people from all parts of the world and different age groups.
So far the group is largely made up of bloggers or online entrepreneurs. There’s no rule on this but it’s who seems to be joining so I thought I’d open the invitation up to the wider ProBlogger community.
Whether this evolves beyond the group or ends up just being a temporary community I don’t know but I’m loving the first couple of days and hope that those of you who feel moved to do so might consider joining us.
Is it Time to Focus a little Less on Your Blog and A Little More on YOU?
I’d love to see you over on the Feelgooder Group on Facebook.
You are right. But the issue will be only for full time bloggers.
For part time bloggers, they have many other things to do and may escape from these issues.
“Part time bloggers”)) Ha-ha nice term!)
I am a part time blogger’s now, I thing this is a hobby for me, but when I know that I can get money from blogging, I think I can be a full time bloggers and focus on my lovely hobby
Blogging is fun when you see it as one….forget the traffic and focus on quality contents…..Visitors will surely come.
Darren, I really appreciate your post for several reasons but here are 2.
1. Yes, we need to take care of our bodies.
2. The older we get, we must keep to some type of exercise routine.
Of course, it does not have to be an extreme regimen. but 10 to 15 minutes a day with moderate eating habits will do wonders for us. I’m happy for you!
I also agree with the above comments. I my self am a part time blogger or you can say its a hobby. I need to focus on my study and to earn from blogging in my free time, so i thinks part time bloggers are free from these issues but still in this articles there were some points that resembles with me so thnx dear for sharing it and making us comfortable